"We would never tell someone with a broken leg that they should stop wallowing and get it together. We don’t consider taking medication for an ear infection something to be ashamed of. We shouldn’t treat mental health conditions any differently."
- Michelle Obama
Awareness
"You have within you right now everything you need to deal with whatever the world can throw at you."
- Brian Tracy
Self-confidence
"And still, I rise."
- Maya Angelou
Courage
"To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Success
"I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions."
- Stephen R. Covey
Belief in Self
"In my early professional years I was asking the question, How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?"
- Rogers
Personal Growth
"One of the cardinal features of cognitive therapy is that it stubbornly refuses to buy into your sense of worthlessness."
- Burns
Belief in Self
"Believe you can, and you’re halfway there."
- Theodore Roosevelt
Motivation
"I have come to believe that caring for myself is not self-indulgent. Caring for myself is an act of survival."
- Audre Lorde
Self-care
"The advice I’d give to somebody that’s silently struggling is, you don’t have to live that way. You don’t have to struggle in silence. You can be un-silent."
- Demi Lovato
Empowerment
"The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change."
- Carl R. Rogers
Self-improvement
"One of the most important instruments you have to work with as a counselor is yourself as a person… To every therapy session, we bring our human qualities and the experiences that have influenced us. In my judgment, this human dimension is one of the most powerful influences on the therapeutic process."
- Gerald Corey
Self-awareness
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall."
- Confucius
Resilience
"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Awareness
"The unexamined life is not worth living."
- Socrates
Reflection
"When we tackle obstacles, we find hidden reserves of courage and resilience we did not know we had. And it is only when we are faced with failure do we realize that these resources were always there within us. We only need to find them and move on with our lives."
- A.P.J. Abdul Kalam
Resilience
"It is taking everything within me to keep waiting, but this is the miracle that I am coming to know; this desert journey has made me weary but my heart is still slouched toward hope. And I will believe I can know peace without knowing what comes next. I will trust in the waiting everything connects. Today is not in vain. And I will grow and I will change in beautiful, meaningful ways."
- Morgan Harper Nichols
Hope
"There is hope, even when your brain tells you there isn’t."
- John Green
Hope
"Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light."
- Albus Dumbledore
Happiness
"Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage. Truth and courage aren’t always comfortable, but they're never weakness."
- Brené Brown
Bravery
"Promise me you’ll always remember: You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think."
- A.A. Milne
Empowerment
"Just because no one else can heal or do your inner work for you doesn’t mean you can, should, or need to do it alone."
- Lisa Olivera
Connection to Earth
"Mental health…is not a destination, but a process. It’s about how you drive, not where you’re going."
- Noam Shpancer, PhD
Personal Growth
"You are not your illness. You have an individual story to tell. You have a name, a history, a personality. Staying yourself is part of the battle."
- Julian Seifter
Empowerment
"Mental health problems don’t define who you are. They are something you experience. You walk in the rain and you feel the rain, but you are not the rain."
- Matt Haig
Self-awareness
"What mental health needs is more sunlight, more candor, and more unashamed conversation."
- Glenn Close
Awareness
"Being able to be your true self is one of the strongest components of good mental health."
- Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy
Self-awareness
"I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship."
- Louisa May Alcott
Courage
"Sometimes self care is exercise and eating right. Sometimes it’s spending time with loved ones or taking a nap. And sometimes it’s watching an entire season of TV in one weekend while you lounge around in your pajamas. Whatever soothes your soul."
- Nanea Hoffman
Self-care
"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen."
- Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
Compassion
"You have permission to rest. You are not responsible for fixing everything that is broken. You do not have to try and make everyone happy. For now, take time for you. It’s time to replenish."
- Alyse Ruriani
Self-care
"Do not feel guilty for prioritizing your emotional well-being. You deserve to flourish in safe spaces."
- Alexandra Elle
Self-care
"I cannot stand the words ‘Get over it’. All of us are under such pressure to put our problems in the past tense. Slow down. Don’t allow others to hurry your healing. It is a process, one that may take years, occasionally, even a lifetime – and that’s OK."
- Beau Taplin
Healing
"Self-care is how you take your power back."
- Lalah Delia
Self-care
"My dark days made me strong. Or maybe I already was strong, and they made me prove it."
- Emery Lord
Strength
"There is no normal life that is free of pain. It's the very wrestling with our problems that can be the impetus for our growth."
- Fred Rogers
Growth
"‘Positive vibes only’ isn’t a thing. Humans have a wide range of emotions and that’s OK."
- Molly Bahr, LMHC
Awareness
"You don’t have to be positive all the time. It’s perfectly okay to feel sad, angry, annoyed, frustrated, scared and anxious. Having feelings doesn’t make you a negative person. It makes you human."
- Lori Deschene
Compassion
"Nothing can dim the light that shines from within."
- Maya Angelou
Inner Peace
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."
- Buddha
Love
"This feeling will pass. The fear is real but the danger is not."
- Cammie McGovern
Hope
"Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor."
- Thich Nhat Hanh
Mindfulness
"Even if we don’t have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there."
- Stephen Chbosky
Choice
"You are valuable just because you exist. Not because of what you do or what you have done, but simply because you are."
- Max Lucado
Self-esteem
"There is no standard normal. Normal is subjective. There are seven billion versions of normal on this planet."
- Matt Haig, Reasons to Stay Alive
Awareness
"Women have to take the time to focus on our mental health — take time for self, for the spiritual, without feeling guilty or selfish. The world will see you the way you see you, and treat you the way you treat yourself."
- Beyoncé
Self-care
"The best way out is always through."
- Robert Frost
Resilience
"We are not our trauma. We are not our brain chemistry. That’s part of who we are, but we’re so much more than that."
- Sam J. Miller
Belief in Self
"Your mental health is everything – prioritize it. Make the time like your life depends on it, because it does."
- Mel Robbins
Wellness
"If we start being honest about our pain, our anger, and our shortcomings instead of pretending they don’t exist, then maybe we’ll leave the world a better place than we found it."
- Russell Wilson
Honesty
"In general, the ability to make sense of tragedy and then find benefit in it is the key that unlocks posttraumatic growth."
- Haidt
Healing
"The need to be closely related to others is as basic as any biological need and is, in the light of the prolonged period of helpless infancy, equally necessary to survival."
- Yalom
Connection to Earth
"A sense of life meaning ensues but cannot be deliberately pursued: life meaning is always a derivative phenomenon that materializes when we have transcended ourselves, when we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves."
- Yalom
Philosophy
"Our relations with one another are like a stone arch, which would collapse if the stones did not mutually support each other, and which is upheld in this very way."
- Seneca
Connection to Earth
"We were born for cooperation, like feet, like hands, like eyelids, like the rows of upper and lower teeth. So to work in opposition to one another is against nature: and anger or rejection is opposition."
- Marcus Aurelius
Harmony
"The greatest gift is a portion of thyself."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Generosity
"The good life is one inspired by love and guided by knowledge."
- Bertrand Russell
Philosophy
"Your time is limited; don’t waste it living someone else’s life."
- Steve Jobs
Motivation
"We rise by lifting others."
- Robert Ingersoll
Compassion
"The greatest gift you can give someone is the space to be his or her authentic self."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Empowerment
"The darkest night is often the bridge to the brightest tomorrow."
- Norman Vincent Peale
Hope
"The simple act of caring is heroic."
- Edward Albert
Compassion
"We need to give each other the space to grow, to be ourselves, to exercise our diversity. We need to give each other space so that we may both give and receive such beautiful things as ideas, openness, dignity, joy, healing, and inclusion."
- Max de Pree
Determination
"When we are listened to, it creates us, makes us unfold and expand."
- Karl A. Menniger
Connection to Earth
"Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start."
- Nibo Qubein
Personal Growth
"You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take."
- Wayne Gretzky
Taking Risks
"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."
- Eleanor Roosevelt
Aspirations
"Psychotherapy … [is] a profession whose mainspring is love. Nearly everyone who visits a therapist has a love disorder, and each has a story to tell—of love lost or denied, love twisted or betrayed, love perverted or shackled to violence."
- Ackerman
Compassion
"I feel enriched when I can truly prize or care for or love another person and when I can let that feeling flow out to that person."
- Rogers
Love
"'Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship.' It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation."
- Yalom
Connection to Earth
"Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know."
- Chödrön
Learning from Mistakes
"When we are no longer able to change a situation—just think of an incurable disease such as inoperable cancer—we are challenged to change ourselves."
- Frankl
Adaptation
"Who looks outside dreams; who looks inside awakes."
- Jung
Self-awareness
"It seems to me that the good life is not any fixed state. [...] The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination."
- Rogers
Philosophy
"Meanings are not determined by situations, but we determine ourselves by the meanings we give to situations."
- Adler
Belief in Self
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference."
- Niebuhr
Faith
"There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so."
- Seneca
Belief
"Person-centered therapy is an optimistic, humanistic, and phenomenological approach to therapy. Person-centered theory posits that individuals have within themselves a capacity for dramatic and positive growth."
- Sommers-Flanagan and Sommers-Flanagan
Hope
"Positive psychology looks at what is right with people, focuses on when people are at their best, and attends to individual and group flourishing."
- Biswas-Diener
Well-being
"We know from experience and the growing body of supportive literature [...] that the therapeutic relationship a counselor forms with each client can be the most powerful tool for helping clients change."
- Cochran and Cochran
Empowerment
"Rather than particular techniques, the far greater predictors of positive outcomes are therapeutic relationships, or counselor qualities in therapeutic relationships that capitalize on clients’ internal strengths."
- Cochran and Cochran
Empowerment
"As human beings we belong to an extremely resilient species. [...] But traumatic experiences do leave traces, whether on a large scale [...] or close to home. [...] They also leave traces on our minds and emotions, on our capacity for joy and intimacy, and even on our biology and immune systems."
- van der Kolk
Resilience
"Beneath the surface of the protective parts of trauma survivors there exists an undamaged essence, a Self that is confident, curious, and calm, a Self that has been sheltered from destruction by the various protectors that have emerged in their efforts to ensure survival."
- van der Kolk
Resilience
"Trauma often shatters belief systems and robs people of their sense of meaning. In so doing, it forces people to put the pieces back together, [...] rebuilding beautifully those parts of their lives and life stories that they could never have torn down voluntarily."
- Haidt
Healing
"The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today."
- Franklin D. Roosevelt
Belief in Self
"First, out of clutter, find simplicity. Second, from discord, make harmony. Third, in the middle of difficulty lies opportunity."
- John Archibald Wheeler (about Albert Einstein)
Optimism
"Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom."
- Aristotle
Reflection
"The more you know yourself, the more patience you have for what you see in others."
- Erik Erikson
Self-awareness
"Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit."
- Napoleon Hill
Courage
"Great works are performed not by strength but by perseverance."
- Samuel Johnson
Overcoming Obstacles
"Nourishing yourself in a way that helps you blossom in the direction you want to go is attainable, and you are worth the effort."
- Deborah Day
Self-care
"Self-care is giving the world the best of you instead of what’s left of you."
- Katie Reed
Self-care
"You owe yourself the love that you so freely give to other people."
- Alexandra Elle
Self-care
"Far and away, the best prize life has to offer is the chance to work hard at work worth doing."
- Theodore Roosevelt
Motivation
"It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves."
- Sir Edmund Hillary
Personal Growth
"Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously."
- Prentis Hemphil
Relationships
"Life is a balance of holding on and letting go - Rumi No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it's not the same river and he's not the same man. Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom."
- Rumi, Heraclitus, Viktor E. Frankl
Balance
"Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us."
- David Richo
Healing
"I'm fine. Well, I'm not fine - I'm here." "Is there something wrong with that?" "Absolutely."
- Ned Vizzini
Awareness
"Writing is a form of therapy; sometimes I wonder how all those who do not write, compose, or paint can manage to escape the madness, melancholia, the panic and fear which is inherent in a human situation."
- Graham Greene
Healing
"Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the questions you have been avoiding your whole life."
- Shannon L. Alder
Bravery
"The attempt to escape from pain, is what creates more pain."
- Gabor Maté
Awareness
"In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?"
- Carl R. Rogers
Contribution
"Think of your head as an unsafe neighborhood; don't go there alone."
- Augusten Burroughs
Awareness
"First, the physiological symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder have been brought within manageable limits. Second, the person is able to bear the feelings associated with traumatic memories. Third, the person has authority over her memories; she can elect both to remember the trauma and to put memory aside. Fourth, the memory of the traumatic event is a coherent narrative, linked with feeling. Fifth, the person's damaged self-esteem has been restored. Sixth, the person's important relationships have been reestablished. Seventh and finally, the person has reconstructed a coherent system of meaning and belief that encompasses the story of trauma."
- Judith Lewis Herman
Healing
"I have an obligation to help eliminate the stigma attached to mental illness. When I’m feeling despondent and someone asks in a sincere way how I am, I have a duty to tell the truth. It’s no different from saying I have a bad cold. By speaking candidly, I give others permission to acknowledge their own mental illness, talk about it, and seek help. I must break the silence instead of treating my depression like a shameful character flaw."
- Larry Godwin
Empowerment
"Emotional pain is not something that should be hidden away and never spoken about. There is truth in your pain, there is growth in your pain, but only if it’s first brought out into the open."
- Steven Aitchison
Healing
"You are not alone. You are seen. I am with you. You are not alone."
- Shonda Rhimes
Compassion
"In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger — something better, pushing right back."
- Albert Camus
Strength
"If you’re going through hell, keep going."
- Winston Churchill
Resilience
"If there is no struggle, there is no progress."
- Frederick Douglass
Adversity
"Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love."
- Brené Brown
Self-care
"I learned that my sadness never destroyed what was great about me. You just have to go back to that greatness, find that one little light that’s left. I’m lucky I found one little glimmer stored away."
- Lady Gaga
Hope
"One small crack does not mean that you are broken, it means that you were put to the test and you didn’t fall apart."
- Linda Poindexter
Resilience
"You say you’re depressed — all I see is resilience. You are allowed to feel messed up and inside out. It doesn’t mean you’re defective–it just means you’re human."
- David Mitchell
Resilience
"Slow breathing is like an anchor in the midst of an emotional storm: the anchor won't make the storm go away, but it will hold you steady until it passes."
- Russ Harris
Mindfulness
"Be dedicated to change the way in which people see mental illness at all levels of society. If not for yourself, advocate for those who are struggling in silence."
- Germany Kent
Empowerment
"Anyone can be affected, despite their level of success or their place on the food chain. In fact, there is a good chance you know someone who is struggling with it since nearly 20% of American adults face some form of mental illness in their lifetime. So why aren’t we talking about it?"
- Kristen Bell
Awareness
"You don’t have to control your thoughts. You just have to stop letting them control you."
- Dan Millman
Empowerment
"There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in."
- Leonard Cohen
Hope
"I think it’s really important to take the stigma away from mental health… My brain and my heart are really important to me. I don’t know why I wouldn’t seek help to have those things be as healthy as my teeth."
- Kerry Washington
Awareness
"Play is the child’s symbolic language of self-expression and can reveal (a) what the child has experienced; (b) reactions to what was experienced; (c) feelings about what was experienced; (d) what the child wishes, wants, or needs; and (e) the child’s perception of self."
- Landreth
Self-awareness
"[Children should] be allowed to remain in the Garden of Eden until they are strong enough to stand the cultural process without being broken by it."
- Johnson
Education
"The human capacity for burden is like bamboo — far more flexible than you’d ever believe at first glance."
- Jodi Picoult
Resilience
"Adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into a positive one."
- Hans Selye
Overcoming Obstacles
"It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light."
- Aristotle
Hope
"Change what you can, manage what you can’t."
- Raymond McCauley
Resilience
"It is not the bruises on the body that hurt. It is the wounds of the heart and the scars on the mind."
- Aisha Mirza
Adversity
"All children should be taught to unconditionally accept, approve, admire, appreciate, forgive, trust, and ultimately, love their own person."
- Asa Don Brown
Self-esteem
"Although both love and knowledge are necessary, love is in a sense more fundamental since it will lead intelligent people to seek knowledge in order to find out how to benefit those whom they love. But if people are not intelligent, they will be content to believe what they have been told and may do harm in spite of the most genuine benevolence."
- Bertrand Russell
Love
"Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person."
- Mother Teresa
Leadership
"The influence of a beautiful, helpful character is contagious and may revolutionize a whole town."
- Eleanor H. Porter
Influence
"Understanding why people suffer, how they change, and how to help them live satisfying lives is a fascinating and important undertaking."
- Sommers-Flanagan and Sommers-Flanagan
Awareness
"One who conquers the sea today is ready to conquer the ocean tomorrow."
- Matshona Dhliwayo
Perseverance
"The children must be taught how to think, not what to think."
- Mead
Education
"Burnout occurs when the distance between the ideal and the possible lived reality becomes too much to bear. That’s true of the workplace, and that’s true of parenting."
- Petersen
Adversity
"[Burnout is] the flattening of life into one never-ending to-do list, and the feeling that you’ve optimized yourself into a work robot that happens to have bodily functions, which you do your very best to ignore."
- Petersen
Adversity
"Exhaustion means going to the point where you can’t go any further; burnout means reaching that point and pushing yourself to keep going, whether for days or weeks or years."
- Petersen
Adversity
"Pain travels through families until someone is willing to feel it."
- Stephi Wagner
Healing
"Burnout is an ailment of the soul. We burn out in large part because we believe work is the sure path to social, moral, and spiritual flourishing."
- Malesic
Balance
"Deep breathing is our nervous system’s love language."
- Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy
Mindfulness
"Today I hit rock bottom but didn’t busy myself with activity to take my mind off it, like I usually do. I allowed myself to sink as deep as possible. It’s like an infection: let it run its course and be done with it. Rising, I felt cleansed."
- Larry Godwin
Healing
"Our bodies and minds are overworked by more than work. They are subject to a culture that relates to every moment as an opportunity to produce or consume."
- Cohen
Balance
"Your present circumstances don’t determine where you go; they merely determine where you start."
- Nido Qubein
Growth
"You are an amazing clinician. You’re helping so much, even when it doesn’t feel like it."
- @thecollaborativemiami
Empowerment
"Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant."
- Robert Louis Stevenson
Compassion
"Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them."
- Joubert Botha
Independence
"Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves."
- Henry David Thoreau
Personal Growth
"Imposter syndrome loves to show up when you’re about to make major moves."
- Josie Rosario
Self-awareness
"The opposite of illness is not wellness. The opposite of illness is justice."
- @inclusivetherapists
Awareness
"Just because you don’t understand it doesn’t mean it isn’t so."
- Lemony Snicket
Awareness
"Not all battles are visible and neither are the victories."
- Brittany Burgunder
Resilience
"It's difficult. I take a low dose of lithium nightly. I take an antidepressant for my darkness because prayer isn't enough. My therapist hears confession twice a month, my shrink delivers the host, and I can stand in the woods and see the world spark."
- David Lovelace
Healing
"Everyone may agree upon the diagnosis, but not everyone may consent to the therapy. Indeed, for healing, things have to be sacrificed at times and separation or loss might always be heartbreak and leave scars of remorse or regret. ("Sorrow")"
- Erik Pevernagie
Healing
"The moment you have to recruit people to put another person down, in order to convince someone of your value is the day you dishonor your children, your parents and your God. If someone doesn't see your worth the problem is them, not people outside your relationship."
- Shannon L. Alder
Self-esteem
"We take care of ourselves financially so we can be generous with others."
- Lindsay Bryan-Podvin
Self-care
"Talking to a therapist, I thought, was like taking your clothes off and then taking your skin off, and then having the other person say, "Would you mind opening up your rib cage so that we can start?""
- Julie Schumacher
Awareness
"If the sound of happy children is grating on your ears, I don't think it's the children who need to be adjusted."
- Stefan Molyneux
Awareness
"Of course, a culture as manically and massively materialistic as ours creates materialistic behavior in its people, especially in those people who've been subjected to nothing but the destruction of imagination that this culture calls education, the destruction of autonomy it calls work, and the destruction of activity it calls entertainment."
- James Hillman
Awareness
"In Hollywood if you don't have a shrink, people think you're crazy."
- Johnny Carson
Awareness
"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."
Self-esteem
"Your empathy and guidance plant the seeds of change in the hearts of those you touch."
Empathy
"Feel it to heal it"
Healing
"If all you can do is crawl, start crawling"
Perseverance
"By the yard it’s hard but inch by inch, anything is a cinch!"
Perseverance
"You either pass it back or you pass it on."
Responsibility
"A comforting lie protects a painful truth."
Awareness
"Whether you believe you can or you cannot, you’re right."
Belief in Self
"Avoidance is a symptom of anxiety, not a treatment for it."
Awareness
"A healthy relationship is one in which everyone can grow."
Relationships
"Perfection is the enemy of the very good."
Self-improvement
"Curiosity is the death of shame and criticism"
Awareness
"Don’t make permanent decisions based on temporary emotions."
Self-awareness
"Nourish to flourish"
Self-care
"Stop ‘should-ing’ all over yourself!"
Self-care
"Truth without tact is cruelty."
Honesty
"We set boundaries to keep people in our lives, not to cut them out."
Relationships
"If being hard on yourself worked, it would’ve already worked."
Self-improvement
"Noone ever hated themselves into loving themselves"
Self-esteem
"Worry pretends to be necessary."
Mindfulness
"The only way to win against a toxic person is to choose not to play"
Self-care
"anger is the bodyguard of sadness"
Empathy
"Love is given and not earned There is a difference between being loved and feeling loved"
Love
"No is a complete sentence. It's not what's wrong with you, it's what happened to you."
Self-esteem
"Compassion and empathy sound like excuses to a perfectionist."
Empathy
"Name is to tame it."
Healing
"Put the rage on the page"
Healing