"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
- Eleanor Roosevelt
Self-esteem
"You’ve got to love yourself first. You’ve got to be okay on your own before you can be okay with somebody else."
- Jennifer Lopez
Self-esteem
"Remember, you have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens."
- Louise L. Hay
Self-improvement
"Look inward—the loving begins with you."
- Oprah Winfrey
Self-awareness
"You are not a drop in the ocean, you are the ocean in a drop."
- Rumi
Self-esteem
"Love yourself, fiercely and unconditionally."
- Atticus
Self-esteem
"You’ve got to love yourself first. You’ve got to be OK on your own before you can be OK with somebody else. You’ve got to value yourself and know that you’re worth everything."
- Jennifer Lopez
Self-esteem
"To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance."
- Oscar Wilde
Self-esteem
"Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world."
- Lucille Ball
Love
"Self-love has very little to do with how you feel about your outer self. It’s about accepting all of yourself."
- Tyra Banks
Self-care
"Self-love is the source of all our other loves."
- Yung Pueblo
Self-esteem
"Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward."
- Roy T. Bennett
Self-esteem
"You are enough just as you are."
- Meghan Markle
Self-esteem
"To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance."
- Oscar Wilde
Self-care
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken."
- Oscar Wilde
Self-confidence
"Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line."
- Lucille Ball
Self-esteem
"Friendship with oneself is all-important because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world."
- Eleanor Roosevelt
Self-awareness
"I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect."
- Maya Angelou
Self-esteem
"Self-love is the practice of appreciating and nurturing yourself in every moment."
- Yung Pueblo
Self-care
"The journey of self-love begins when you let go of who you think you have to be."
- Yung Pueblo
Self-improvement
"For me, self-love is like, ‘Am I sleeping enough? Eating well?’ Not: ‘Am I eating well to be able to fit into my skinny jeans?’ But: ‘Am I eating well to be healthy and strong?’ And to acknowledge the good, because there is always a lot of good."
- Kerry Washington
Self-care
"No other love, no matter how genuine it is, can fulfill one’s heart better than unconditional self-love."
- Edmond Mbiaka
Self-improvement
"Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious; you get to choose how you use it."
- Brianna Weist
Self-care
"Treat yourself like someone you love."
- Glennon Doyle
Self-care
"I now see how owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do."
- Brené Brown
Bravery
"Love yourself first, and everything else falls in line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world."
- Alexandra Elle
Self-care
"It’s all about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciates you, rather than looking for love to compensate for a self love deficit."
- Eartha Kitt
Self-esteem
"Until you love yourself, you will never know who you really are and you won’t know what you’re really capable of."
- Louise Hay
Self-awareness
"You are deserving of the love that resides within you."
- Brianna Wiest
Self-esteem
"Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle."
- Christian D. Larson
Belief in Self
"Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept."
- Anna Taylor
Self-care
"You are imperfect, you are wired for struggle, but you are worthy of love and belonging."
- Brené Brown
Self-esteem
"My mission, should I choose to accept it, is to find peace with exactly who and what I am. To take pride in my thoughts, my appearance, my talents, my flaws and to stop this incessant worrying that I can’t be loved as I am."
- Anaïs Nin
Self-confidence
"There is you and you. This is a relationship. This is the most important relationship."
- Nayyirah Waheed
Self-awareness
"The first step to loving who you are is to accept who you are, including the parts you might not be proud of. Embrace your journey and believe in your potential."
- Jasmine Star
Self-improvement
"Love yourself enough to create an environment in your life that is conducive to the nourishment of your personal growth. Allow yourself to let go of the people, thoughts, and situations that poison your well-being. Cultivate a vibrant surrounding and commit yourself to making choices that will help you release the greatest expression of your unique beauty and purpose."
- Steve Maraboli
Self-care
"Be healthy and take care of yourself, but be happy with the beautiful things that make you, you."
- Beyoncé
Self-care
"You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens."
- Louise L. Hay
Self-esteem
"Learn to love yourself enough to be happy in your own company, not needing to use anyone as an escape."
- Samantha Camargo
Self-esteem
"The worst outcome in this world is not having self esteem. If you don’t love yourself, who will?"
- Naval Ravikant
Belief in Self
"Choose, everyday, to forgive yourself. You are human, flawed, and most of all worthy of love."
- Alison Malee
Forgiveness
"The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I’m not going to let myself pull me down anymore."
- C. JoyBell C.
Self-confidence
"Be vulnerable. Let yourself be deeply seen, love with your whole heart, practice gratitude and joy… be able to say ‘I am thankful to feel this vulnerable because it means I am alive,’ and believe ‘I am enough.’ You are worthy of love and belonging."
- Brene Brown
Self-esteem
"Love yourself. Be clear on how you want to be treated. Know your worth. Always."
- Maryam Hasnaa
Self-esteem
"I like me. I like my story and all the bumps and bruises. That’s what makes me uniquely me."
- Michelle Obama
Self-esteem
"You are good enough. You do deserve good things. You are smart enough. You are worthy of love and respect."
- Lorri Faye
Self-esteem
"I am sure of myself as a person. I am sure of my talent. I’m sure of my love for life and that sort of thing. I am very content, I like the kind of person that I am."
- Dolly Parton
Self-confidence
"Confidence isn’t thinking you are better than anyone else; it’s realizing that you have no reason to compare yourself to anyone else."
- Maryam Hasnaa
Self-confidence
"Self-love is the decision to be in a lifelong romance with yourself."
- Yung Pueblo
Self-improvement
"Love yourself unconditionally, just as you love those closest to you despite their faults."
- Les Brown
Love
"I care for myself. The more solitary, the more friendless, the more unsustained I am, the more I will respect myself."
- Charlotte Brontë
Self-care
"Believe you can, and you’re halfway there."
- Theodore Roosevelt
Motivation
"Choose, every day, to forgive yourself. You are human, flawed, and most of all worthy of love."
- Alison Malee
Forgiveness
"Self love, self respect, self worth… there is a reason they all start with ‘self’. You can’t find them in anyone else."
- Dr. Anne Brown
Self-esteem
"If you are happy, you can give happiness. If you don’t love yourself and if you are unhappy with yourself, you can’t give anything else but that."
- Gisele Bündchen
Happiness
"Be gentle with yourself, learn to love yourself, to forgive yourself, for only as we have the right attitude toward ourselves can we have the right attitude toward others."
- Wilfred Peterson
Self-care
"Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives."
- Louise L. Hay
Self-esteem
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Self-awareness
"To love yourself right now, just as you are, is to give yourself heaven. Don’t wait until you die. If you wait, you die now. If you love, you live now."
- Alan Cohen
Self-esteem
"Be you, love you. All ways, always."
- Alexandra Elle
Self-esteem
"I must be myself. I cannot break myself any longer for you, or you. If you can love me for what I am, we shall be the happier. If you cannot, I will still seek to deserve that you should."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Self-confidence
"Find out who you are and do it on purpose."
- Dolly Parton
Self-awareness
"We accept the love we think we deserve."
- Stephen Chbosky
Love
"Keep taking time for yourself until you’re you again."
- Lalah Delia
Self-care
"You change the world by being yourself."
- Yoko Ono
Belief in Self
"The universe took its time on you."
- Rupi Kaur
Belief in Self
"Be bold, be brave enough to be your true self."
- Queen Latifah
Bravery
"All love begins with the love within."
- Vironika Tugaleva
Love
"Turn your wounds into wisdom."
- Oprah Winfrey
Resilience
"If you wish to be loved, love."
- Hecaton of Rhodes
Love
"How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you."
- Rupi Kaur
Self-esteem
"Document the moments you feel most in love with yourself - what you’re wearing, who you’re around, what you’re doing. Recreate and repeat."
- Warsan Shire
Self-awareness
"I am my own experiment. I am my own work of art."
- Madonna
Self-awareness
"Lighten up on yourself. No one is perfect. Gently accept your humanness."
- Deborah Day
Self-care
"Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical."
- Sophia Loren
Belief in Self
"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are."
- Kurt Cobain
Self-awareness
"Just do what works for you, because there will always be somebody who thinks differently."
- Michelle Obama
Self-confidence
"The same light you see in others is shining within you, too."
- Morgan Harper Nichols
Self-awareness
"Today you are you! That is truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you! Shout loud, ‘I am lucky to be what I am!...’"
- Dr. Seuss
Self-esteem
"When you say ‘yes’ to others make sure you are not saying ‘no’ to yourself."
- Paulo Coelho
Self-care
"You must find the place inside yourself where nothing is impossible."
- Deepak Chopra
Belief in Self
"Tell yourself how wonderful you are, how great you are. Tell yourself how much you love yourself."
- Don Miguel Ruiz
Self-care
"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined."
- Henry David Thoreau
Ambition
"Stay true to yourself. An original is worth more than a copy."
- Suzy Kassem
Self-confidence
"Nourishing yourself in a way that helps you blossom in the direction you want to go is attainable, and you are worth the effort."
- Deborah Day
Self-care
"Freeing yourself was one thing, claiming ownership of that freed self was another."
- Toni Morrison
Empowerment
"Nothing is impossible. The word itself says ‘I’m possible!’"
- Audrey Hepburn
Aspirations
"As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow."
- Charlie Chaplin
Self-improvement
"In your own life it’s important to know how spectacular you are."
- Steve Maraboli
Self-confidence
"You have to believe that your ideas, and your hope, and your being, deserve to take up space."
- Bianca Sparacino
Belief in Self
"And I said to my body, ‘I want to be your friend.’ It took a long breath. And replied, ‘I have been waiting my whole life for this."
- Nayyirah Waheed
Self-awareness
"I remind myself to be kind to myself, and as slightly ridiculous as it may sound, to treat myself in the same gentle way I’d want to treat a daughter of mine. It really helps."
- Emma Stone
Self-care
"By doing the work to love ourselves more, I believe we will love each other better."
- Laverne Cox
Love
"The things that make me different are the things that make me."
- Piglet
Originality
"Be a master at loving yourself and people will follow."
- Kim Guerra
Love
"One of the most important things you can accomplish is just being yourself."
- Dwayne Johnson
Self-awareness
"Embrace the glorious mess that you are."
- Elizabeth Gilbert
Self-awareness
"The more I like me, the less I want to pretend to be other people."
- Jamie Lee Curtis
Self-esteem
"I’ve finally stopped running away from myself. Who else is there better to be?"
- Goldie Hawn
Self-awareness
"Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself."
- Coco Chanel
Self-awareness
"I’m all about body positivity and self-love because I believe that we can save the world if we first save ourselves."
- Lizzo
Self-esteem
"Instead of drifting along like a leaf in a river, understand who you are and how you come across to people, and what kind of an impact you have on the people around you and the world, so that when you go out, you can feel you have made a positive difference."
- Jane Fonda
Self-awareness
"Your only job is to be your truest self."
- Chelsie Diane
Self-awareness
"It is where everything that is not love and worship for the divine beings that we are – falls away. It is is peeking into the strange universe that each one of us holds and saying, “Yes. I see you, you divine thing. You beautiful, sacred universe.” When you have a group of people who call you into remembering there is no other way to move through space. You begin to believe again (or more strongly) in the power of love and joy and community and how pain is a tool for individual transformation. That everything in your beautiful life is there to help you remember."
- Lindsay Douglas
Self-awareness
"Sometimes our best form of self-love is where we do things when no one is watching, no one is noticing, and it’s the holy act that we get to whisper to ourselves each time we come to stand in front of the mirror and relearn how to adore ourselves in a way only true lovers do, in whispers, in consecrated corners, under sheets, behind closed doors, and all the private places where we get to be the most seen.Then when you come out, you’re absolutely glowing, and it’s this sacred secret between you and yourself that your darling is your own damn beautiful lover. Go love her, just like that."
- Lumalia
Self-esteem
"You are allowed to be both a masterpiece and a work in progress simultaneously."
- Sophia Bush
Personal Growth
"I learned a long time ago the wisest thing I can do is be on my own side."
- Dr. Maya Angelou
Self-care
"As I began to love myself I found that [anguish] and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know this is ‘authenticity.’"
- Charlie Chaplin
Self-awareness
"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option."
- Mark Twain
Self-esteem
"Comparison is an act of violence against the self."
- Iyanla Vanzant
Happiness
"Other people’s opinion of you, whether it’s good or bad, should not be grounds in which you base your self worth. Your value is inherent within you. What matters the most is whether you know you are worthy."
- Ash Alves
Self-esteem
"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent."
- Eleanor Roosevelt
Self-esteem
"It is only when you have mastered the art of [loving yourself] that you can truly love others. It is only when you have opened your own heart that you can touch the heart of others."
- Robin Sharma
Love
"Beauty begins the moment you decided to be yourself."
- Coco Chanel
Self-confidence
"In order to love who you are, you cannot hate the experiences that shaped you."
- Andrea Dykstra
Self-awareness
"You have to choose yourself, even when others refuse to."
- R. H. Sin
Self-esteem
"If you’re searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror."
- Roman Price
Self-esteem
"Be healthy and [take care of yourself], but be happy with the beautiful things that make you, you."
- Beyonce
Self-care
"Compassion for yourself is fundamental, since if you don’t care how you feel and want to do something about it, it’s hard to make an effort to become happier and more resilient. Compassion is both soft and muscular. For example, studies show that when people feel compassion, motor planning areas in the brain begin preparing for action."
- Rick Hanson
Compassion
"The Golden Rule is a two-way street: we should do unto ourselves as we do unto others."
- Rick Hanson
Compassion
"You get the benefits of both giving and receiving compassion when you offer it to yourself."
- Rick Hanson
Compassion
"Well-being comes from meeting our needs, not denying them."
- Rick Hanson
Well-being
"You should love others in the same measure as you love yourself—as if your neighbor were your very self."
- Lawrence G. Lovasick
Love
"Compassion for self and others may very well be the answer to healing our hurt, hate-filled world."
- Laura Jack
Compassion
"Compassion for others begins with kindness to ourselves."
- Pema Chodron
Compassion
"Unless we love and treat ourselves well, we are ill-equipped to do the same for others."
- Angela C. Santomero
Self-care
"We can truly love one another once we love who we are."
- Angela C. Santomero
Love
"To accept oneself completely is to know the truest kind of self-love."
- Anonymous
Self-esteem
"When you love yourself, there’s no such thing as low self esteem. Establish true self esteem to experience the best kind of love with yourself."
- Anonymous
Self-esteem
"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection."
- Buddha
Self-esteem
"Your soul will never be fully nourished by anyone’s love but your own."
- Dominee
Self-esteem
"When you recover or discover something that nourishes your soul and brings joy, care enough about yourself to make room for it in your life."
- Jean Shinoda Bolen
Self-care
"The most powerful relationship you will ever have, is the relationship with yourself."
- Steve Maraboli
Self-esteem
"The only person I need to compare myself to is my yesterday self."
- Allison Sue
Self-improvement
"Self care is how you take your power back."
- Lalah Delia
Self-care
"Never bend your head. Hold it high. Look the world straight in the eye."
- Helen Keller
Self-confidence
"Don’t move the way fear makes you move. Move the way love makes you move. Move the way joy makes you move."
- Osho
Self-confidence
"When I loved myself enough, I began leaving whatever wasn’t healthy."
- Kim McMillen
Self-care
"Life is too short to spend another day at war with yourself."
- Rita Ghatourey
Self-awareness
"I will never apologize for being me, but I will apologize for the times that I am not."
- Michael Carini
Self-confidence
"Know your worth. You must find the courage to leave the table if respect is no longer being served."
- Tene Edwards
Self-esteem
"All relationships are a reflection of your relationship with yourself."
- Deepak Chopra
Self-awareness
"I don’t fit into any stereotypes and I like myself that way."
- C. Joybell
Self-confidence
"I am, indeed, a king because I know how to rule myself."
- Pietro Aretino
Self-confidence
"When you take care of yourself, you’re a better person for others. When you feel good about yourself, you treat others better."
- Solange Knowles
Self-care
"Self love is an ocean and your heart is a vessel. Make it full, and any excess will spill over into the lives of the people you hold dear. But you must come first."
- Beau Taplin
Self-care
"Your self-worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone telling you who you are."
- Beyoncé
Self-esteem
"Once you’ve accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you."
- George R.R. Martin
Self-awareness
"The hardest challenge is to be yourself in a world where everyone is trying to make you be somebody else."
- E. E. Cummings
Self-esteem
"If you’re not someone who has a natural and effortless love for yourself, it’s hard to let go of your desire to please other people, and that’s really not an ingredient for a happy life."
- Anne Hathaway
Self-esteem
"If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life."
- Marcus Garvey
Self-confidence
"And you? When will you begin that long journey into yourself?"
- Rumi
Self-awareness
"Be faithful to that which exists within yourself."
- André Gide
Self-esteem
"Our first and last love is self-love."
- Christian Nestell Bovee
Self-esteem
"Fall in love with yourself, and the world will see how beautiful you truly are."
- Atticus
Self-esteem
"Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love."
- Brené Brown
Self-care
"Be kind to yourself, and then let your kindness fill the world."
- Pema Chödrön
Compassion
"Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know before you learned it."
- Maya Angelou
Forgiveness
"When you connect with your body and embrace its messages, you will discover the power of self-love."
- Phillip Shepherd
Self-awareness
"You’re safe. You can stop being ashamed of your past. You can stop creating stories that everyone will leave you. Believe in your ability to get through anything. Look how far you’ve come. You’re safe now."
- Dr. Nicole LePera
Self-confidence
"Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will."
- Karim Seddiki
Courage
"Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway."
- Earl Nightingale
Aspirations
"Loving-kindness is a wellspring of peace and happiness that you can offer to others. But in order to do that, you must first have love and kindness for yourself."
- James R. Doty, M.D
Happiness
"I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your own being."
- Hafiz of Shiraz
Love
"She believed she could, so she did."
- R. S. Grey
Belief in Self
"You do not have to sacrifice to be loved."
- Dr. Chelsea Page
Self-esteem
"You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream. Love yourself enough to follow your passions."
- Elizabeth Gilbert
Ambition
"You have within you right now, everything you need to deal with whatever the world can throw at you."
- Brian Tracy
Empowerment
"Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions."
- Kathryn Budig
Inner Peace
"Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without."
- Gautama Buddha
Peace
"Nothing can disturb your peace of mind unless you allow it to."
- Roy T. Bennett
Inner Peace
"Inner peace is not found by staying on the surface of life but by diving deep within."
- Eckhart Tolle
Inner Peace
"When you find peace within yourself, you become the kind of person who can live at peace with others."
- Anne Frank
Peace
"Peace is the result of retraining your mind to process life as it is, rather than as you think it should be."
- Wayne W. Dyer
Awareness
"Inner peace is not about denying emotions but accepting them and allowing them to pass through you without resistance."
- Gabrielle Bernstein
Inner Peace
"In the midst of movement and chaos, keep stillness inside of you."
- Deepak Chopra
Inner Peace
"Change is inevitable, but growth is optional."
- John C. Maxwell
Growth
"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."
- Eleanor Roosevelt
Aspirations
"The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance."
- Alan Watts
Resilience
"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Awareness
"The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change their future by merely changing their attitude."
- Oprah Winfrey
Change
"Change can be scary, but you know what’s scarier? Allowing fear to stop you from growing, evolving, and progressing."
- Mandy Hale
Change
"Your life does not get better by chance; it gets better by change."
- Jim Rohn
Change
"Change is painful, but nothing is as painful as staying stuck where you do not belong."
- N.R. Narayana Murthy
Change
"Life is about change. Sometimes it’s painful, sometimes it’s beautiful, but most of the time, it’s both."
- Kristin Kreuk
Change
"Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues but the parent of all others."
- Marcus Tullius Cicero
Gratitude
"Count your blessings, not your troubles."
- Roy T. Bennett
Gratitude
"Be grateful for your life, every detail of it, and your face will come to shine like a sun, and everyone who sees it will be made glad and peaceful."
- Rumi
Gratitude
"When you are grateful, fear disappears, and abundance appears."
- Anthony Robbins
Gratitude
"When you say ‘yes’ to others, make sure you are not saying ‘no’ to yourself."
- Paulo Coelho
Self-care
"The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away."
- Pablo Picasso
Inspiration
"You are not here merely to make a living. You are here in order to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement."
- Woodrow Wilson
Contribution
"Your purpose in life is to find your purpose and give your whole heart and soul to it."
- Gautama Buddha
Aspirations
"The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why."
- Mark Twain
Self-awareness
"Creativity takes courage."
- Henri Matisse
Creativity
"Creativity is intelligence having fun."
- Albert Einstein
Creativity
"Mindfulness is a way of befriending ourselves and our experience."
- Jon Kabat-Zinn
Mindfulness
"You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day. This is a power you can cultivate."
- Elizabeth Gilbert
Mindfulness
"Resilience is accepting your new reality, even if it’s less good than the one you had before."
- Elizabeth Edwards
Resilience
"Faith is seeing the light with your heart when all you with your eyes is darkness. Faith is fully trust in the unknown that lives within you. In short, faith is believing who you truly are."
- Luis Ojeda
Faith
"It is so liberating to really know what I want, what truly makes me happy, what I will not tolerate. I have learned that it is no one else’s job to take care of me but me."
- Beyoncé
Self-care
"One of the best guides to how to be self-loving is to give ourselves the love we are often dreaming about receiving from others."
- Bell Hooks
Self-esteem
"Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others."
- Brené Brown
Courage
"Nobody is perfect. I just don’t believe in perfection. But I do believe in saying this is who I am and look at me not being perfect! I’m proud of that."
- Kate Winslet
Self-confidence
"Even when it seems that there is no one else, always remember there’s one person who never ceased to love you – yourself."
- Sanhita Baruah
Self-esteem
"Loving yourself isn’t vanity; it’s sanity."
- Katrina Mayer
Self-esteem
"The relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have."
- Jane Travis
Relationships
"You’re not your mistakes; they are what you did, not who you are."
- Lisa Lieberman-Wang
Self-improvement
"Self-love isn’t selfish; it’s self-preservation."
- Audre Lorde
Self-care
"Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we’ll ever do."
- Brené Brown
Self-improvement
"If you have the ability to love, love yourself first."
- Charles Bukowski
Self-esteem
"True self-care is not bath salts and chocolate cake, it’s making the choice to build a life you don’t need to escape from."
- Brianna Wiest
Self-care
"You are not your mistakes. They are what you did. Not who you are."
- Lisa Lieberman-Wang
Self-awareness
"Accepting yourself only as long as you look a certain way isn’t self love, it’s self destruction."
- Laci Green
Self-esteem
"The self-love needed for self-care [is] missing. Academicians use terms like self-esteem, self-worth, self-support, self-care, but rarely self-love. That is left to the spiritual community. People don’t realize that taking care of their own needs; eating, drinking, brushing their teeth, showering, wearing clean clothes, going to work are all acts of self-love."
- Angela C. Santomero
Self-care
"Self-love is necessary for a functional and successful life"
- Angela C. Santomero
Self-esteem
"Self-kindness is self-empathy. And even when I talk to myself like someone I love and it feels weird, it works."
- Brene Brown
Self-care
"In the entire universe, you play such a huge role. The self esteem and love you have for yourself is the only gift you need to give. It isn’t a selfish act to love yourself hard. Only you can love yourself to the fullest because you understand why every aspect of your life has happened. A self love deficit isn’t what will bring you joy. The wrong mental attitude can be devastating in the world. If you have true self esteem and high self love you can share that love with the world around you. To love oneself is to love the world and a person learns that only when they show themselves the kindness they deserve."
- Anonymous
Self-esteem
"You carry so much love in your heart. Give some to yourself."
- R.Z.
Self-esteem
"Love yourself so much that when someone treats you wrong, you recognize it."
- Rena Rose
Self-esteem
"I love the person I’ve become because I fought to become her."
- Kaci Diane
Self-confidence
"Either they like you or they don’t. Never try to convince somebody of your worth. If a person doesn’t appreciate you, they don’t deserve you. Respect yourself and be with people who truly value ‘you.’"
- Brigitte Nicole
Self-esteem
"The entire universe deserve your love. You also deserve to experience it back."
- Anonymous
Self-esteem
"She remembered who she was and the game changed."
- Lalah Delia
Personal Growth
"Stay close to anything that makes you glad you are alive."
- Hafez
Gratitude
"If you don’t know what you’re here to do, then just do some good."
- Dr. Maya Angelou
Contribution
"If you want to fly, you have to give up the things that weigh you down."
- Toni Morrison
Personal Growth
"Unconditional self love is all the really matters in life. It’s where real life begins."
- Anonymous
Self-esteem
"Patience is the calm acceptance that things can happen in a different order than you have in mind."
- David G. Allen
Self-care
"Patience is not the ability to wait but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting."
- Joyce Meyer
Overcoming Obstacles
"When your world moves too fast and you lose yourself in the chaos, introduce yourself to each color of the sunset. Reacquaint yourself with the earth beneath your feet. Thank the air that surrounds you with every breath you take. Find yourself in the appreciation of life."
- Christy Ann Martine
Mindfulness
"Be the love you never received."
- Rune Lazuli
Self-esteem
"Seek to be whole, not perfect."
- Oprah
Self-improvement
"Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes."
- Carl Gustav Jung
Self-awareness
"First, you must realize you’re homesick for all the lives you’re not living. Then, you must commit to the road and the rising loneliness. To the sincere thrill of coming apart. Divorce yourself from routine and control. Instead, find a desert and fall in. Take the trail that promises a view. Get lost. Break your toes. Bruise your knees. Keep going. Watch a purple meadow quiver. Get still. Pet trail dogs. Buy the hat. Run out of gas. Befriend strangers. Knight yourself every morning for your newborn courage. Give grief her own lullaby. Drink whiskey beside a hundred-year-old cactus. Honor everything. Pray to something unnameable. Fall for someone impractical. Reacquaint yourself with desire and all her slender hands. Bear beauty for as long as you are able, and if you spot a sunning warbler glowing like a prism, remind yourself – joy is not a trick."
- J. Sullivan
Self-improvement
"Breathe darling, this is just a chapter. It’s not your whole story."
- S.C. Laurie
Hope
"Self-love, my liege, is not so vile a sin, as self-neglecting."
- William Shakespeare
Love
"Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you. Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion. Set your life on fire."
- Rumi
Inspiration
"Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it."
- M. Scott Peck
Self-esteem
"Think thoughts that make you feel good, make choices that make you feel good, and take actions that make you feel good."
- Cheryl Richardson
Positivity
"To love is to be vulnerable."
- Brene Brown
Love
"The only way out is through."
- Robert Frost
Perseverance
"The wound is the place where the light enters you."
- Rumi
Healing
"Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself."
- George Bernard Shaw
Personal Growth
"Healing comes when we choose to walk away from darkness and move towards a brighter light."
- Dieter F. Uchtdorf
Healing
"Your wound is probably not your fault, but your healing is your responsibility."
- Denice Frohman
Responsibility
"Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it."
- Tori Amos
Courage
"Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls your life."
- Akshay Dubey
Healing
"I don’t want everyone to like me; I should think less of myself if some people did."
- Henry James
Self-esteem
"Flowers grow back even after the harshest winters, you will too."
- Jennae Cecilia
Resilience
"All the filth in your mind that tells you that you aren’t worthy or good enough is the reason why you’re not experiencing self love in a healthy sense."
- Anonymous
Self-esteem
"I am stepping right into where I am with no shame, and it feels good."
- Andie MacDowell
Self-confidence
"If you are heartbroken, still leave your heart open, so pain can find an exit."
- Alexandra Vasiliu
Healing
"Sometimes I pretend to be normal. But it gets boring. So I go back to being me."
- Ain Eineziz
Self-confidence
"May you choose yourself, always!"
- Malebo Sephodi
Choice
"We are each gifted in a unique and important way. It is our privilege and our adventure to discover our own special light."
- Mary Dunbar
Self-esteem
"If we all did the things we are capable of doing we would literally astound ourselves."
- Thomas Edison
Motivation
"The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate."
- Oprah Winfrey
Gratitude
"At the end of the day, I stand by who I am. I’m a good person."
- Taraji P. Henson
Self-esteem
"Gonna love myself. No, I don’t need anybody else."
- Hailee Steinfeld
Self-esteem
"But I sort of refuse to be an outsider, even though I know that I very much look like one to a lot of people, and I refuse to view myself in such terms."
- Mindy Kaling
Self-confidence
"At 54, I am still in progress, and I hope that I always will be."
- Michelle Obama
Personal Growth
"Nothing else falls into line when you’re cold to your own person. Everything else falls into line when you open your heart to yourself and stay true to your own person."
- Anonymous
Self-esteem
"I am thankful for all of those who said no to me. It’s because of them I’m doing it myself."
- Albert Einstein
Determination
"Be loud about the things that are important to you."
- Karen Walrond
Self-confidence
"Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you."
- Anne Lamott
Self-care
"I celebrate myself, and sing myself."
- Walt Whitman
Self-esteem
"Start healing your heart and you will look beautiful."
- Alexandra Vasiliu
Healing
"[Love yourself more], you’ll never regret it."
- Ann Marie Molina
Self-esteem
"Do your thing and don’t care if they like it."
- Tina Fey
Self-confidence
"You ain’t gotta like me. I like me."
- Kanye West
Self-confidence
"Keep watering yourself. You’re growing."
- E.Russell
Personal Growth
"Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are."
- Malcolm S. Forbes
Self-awareness
"You will belong here. . .You will make anywhere beautiful."
- Jasmine Warga
Belief in Self
"It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else’s eyes."
- Sally Field
Self-awareness
"I’m safe inside this container called me."
- Haruki Murakami
Self-awareness
"The bad news is time flies. The good news is you’re the pilot."
- Michael Altshuler
Time Management
"Beauty comes from a life well lived"
- Jennifer Garner
Belief in Self
"Don’t worry if people think you’re crazy. You are crazy. You have that kind of intoxicating insanity that lets other people dream outside of the lines and become who they’re destined to be."
- Jennifer Elisabeth
Belief in Self
"The only thing standing between you and your goal is the story you keep telling yourself as to why you can’t achieve it."
- Jordan Belfort
Belief in Self
"Wherever you go, go with all your heart."
- Confucius
Courage
"Not only do self-love and love of others go hand in hand but ultimately they are indistinguishable."
- M. Scott Peck
Love
"I am not bound to win, but I am bound to be true. I am not bound to succeed, but I am bound to live up to what light I have."
- Abraham Lincoln
Integrity
"Don’t forget that you’re human. It’s okay to have a meltdown, just don’t unpack and live there. Cry it out and then refocus on where you are headed."
- Brianna Wiest
Self-care
"It is interesting how often we can’t see all the ways in which we are being strong."
- Lena Dunham
Self-awareness
"My mother told me to be a lady. And for her, that meant be your own person, be independent."
- Ruth Bader Ginsburg
Empowerment
"I took a deep breath and listened to the old brag of my heart. I am, I am, I am."
- Sylvia Plath
Awareness
"Self-care is never a selfish act—it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer to others."
- Parker Palmer
Self-care
"I’ve decided I’m no longer in my queen era I’m in my lover era. Queens are served, feared, made slave to her kingdom and subjects. I don’t want subjects nor to be served.I want to be madly in love, passionate, crazed with affection, overflowing with lavishiness, deep deep in adoration all mutually reciprocated in a cycle of overflow."
- Lumalia
Self-confidence
"If only you could sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person."
- Fred Rodgers
Connection to Earth
"Though fairy tales end after ten pages, our lives do not. We are multi-volume sets. In our lives, even though one episode amounts to a crash and burn, there is always another episode awaiting us and then another. There are always more opportunities to get it right, to fashion our lives in the ways we deserve to have them."
- Clarissa Pinkola Estés
Hope
"Can I hold both hands open at the same time and find peace in the eye of the storm? Allowing new longing to continuously emerge in the one hand, edging me forward with clear intent ; while at the same time transferring those achieved longings to the hand of gratitude, deeply marveling at the richness which lays accumulated there. Can I find joy in the impermanent dance of the open hands?"
- Sophie Callewaert
Inner Peace
"This self-love is the instrument of our preservation; it resembles the provision for the perpetuity of mankind: it is necessary, it is dear to us, it gives us pleasure, and we must conceal it."
- Voltaire
Self-care
"Sometimes you will need people to support you and they won’t be available, not because they don’t care but because they’re the main character of their own life, not just the supporting character in yours."
- kesiawrites
Self-awareness
"Plant hope in your heart’s wounds."
- Alexandra Vasiliu
Self-improvement
"All lights turned off can be turned on."
- Noah Kahan
Hope
"Give yourself the love you’re willing to give to others."
- Mahin Ismail
Self-esteem
"Every exit is an entrance to someplace else."
- Patti LaBelle
New Beginnings
"Don’t look for the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, become the person you want to spend the rest of your life with."
- Neil Strauss
Self-improvement
"Love. Laugh. And live it up!"
- Christie Brinkley
Happiness
"Be kind to the person you are now."
- iambrilliyant
Self-care
"One of the greatest lessons in compassion I had learned was that holding onto resentment and anger doesn’t serve anyone, especially yourself."
- James R. Doty, M.D
Compassion
"Whatever purifies you is the right path."
- Rumi
Spirituality
"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."
Self-esteem
"Talk to yourself like someone you love."
Self-care
"Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do."
Bravery
"To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness."
Self-esteem
"Gratitude turns what we have into enough."
Gratitude
"One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself."
Self-awareness
"Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony."
Happiness
"A strong woman is one who feels deeply and loves fiercely. Her tears flow just as abundantly as her laughter."
Strength
"A strong woman stands up for herself. A stronger woman stands up for everyone else."
Strength
"You are enough, just as you are."
Belief in Self
"Just be yourself. Let people see the real, imperfect, flawed, quirky, weird, beautiful, and magical person that you are."
Self-esteem
"Know your worth. Don’t ask for it. State it once and never accept anything less."
- Unknown
Self-esteem
"We are all born so beautiful the greatest tragedy is being convinced we are not."
- Unknown
Self-esteem
"Shout out to all the people who haven’t felt okay recently, but are getting up every day and refusing to quit. Stay strong."
- Unknown
Resilience
"Don’t go back to less just because you’re too impatient to wait for better."
- Unknown
Self-esteem
"Don’t let the bad days make you think you have a bad life."
- Unknown
Optimism
"There are no prerequisites to worthiness. You are born worthy."
Self-esteem
"Flowers need time to bloom. So do you."
- Unknown
Self-improvement
"Self confidence is a super power. Once you start to believe in yourself, magic starts happening."
- Unknown
Self-confidence
"I know what I bring to the table… so trust me when I say I’m not afraid to eat alone."
- Unknown
Self-confidence
"Don’t compare your life to others, there’s no comparison between the sun and the moon, they both shine when it’s their time."
- Unknown
Self-esteem
"I am unapologetically myself."
- Unknown
Self-confidence
"I honor the progress I have made, no matter how small."
Personal Growth
"I release negative thoughts and welcome positivity into my life."
Positivity
"I am proud of my journey and excited for what’s to come."
Hope
"I am becoming the best version of myself, one day at a time."
Personal Growth
"Don’t let your mind bully your body."
Self-care
"You cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself."
Self-improvement
"Be your own reason to smile."
Happiness
"The way you speak to yourself matters."
Self-awareness
"Your vibe attracts your tribe, so love yourself first."
Connection to Earth
"When you love yourself, you glow from within."
Self-confidence
"Healing comes in waves, and maybe today the wave hits hard. But you’ll keep swimming."
Resilience
"Healing begins with the moment you accept what is."
Healing
"You don’t have to have it all figured out to start healing."
Healing
"Every day is a chance to begin again."
New Beginnings
"Healing doesn’t mean forgetting; it means choosing peace over pain."
Healing
"Trust the process of healing. It takes time, but it’s worth it."
Healing
"Your pain is valid, but it doesn’t define you."
Self-esteem
"Self-love is the greatest middle finger of all time."
Empowerment
"You owe yourself the love that you so freely give to others."
Self-care
"To do: stop being so hard on myself."
- Unknown
Self-care
"Fall in love with taking care of yourself: mind, body, and soul."
Self-care
"It’s okay to be a glowstick; sometimes we need to break before we shine."
Hope
"Healing is not linear. It’s okay to have good days and bad days."
Healing
"Take a deep breath and remember: you’ve survived 100% of your worst days so far."
Resilience
"Your scars are a testament to your strength."
Strength
"Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means it no longer controls your life."
Healing
"Be gentle with yourself; you’re doing the best you can."
Self-care
"Sometimes the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life."
Personal Growth
"I am worthy of love, kindness, and compassion."
Self-esteem