"Hope begins in the dark, the stubborn hope that if you just show up and try to do the right thing, the dawn will come. You wait and watch and work: you don’t give up."
- Anne Lamott
Hope
"If you can quit for a day, you can quit for a lifetime."
- Benjamin Alire Sáenz
Motivation
"Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength."
- Arnold Schwarzenegger
Strength
"We do not have to become heroes overnight. Just a step at a time, meeting each thing that comes up, seeing it is not as dreadful as it appeared, discovering we have the strength to stare it down."
- Eleanor Roosevelt
Courage
"Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life."
- J.K. Rowling
Resilience
"Remember just because you hit bottom doesn’t mean you have to stay there."
- Robert Downey Jr.
Overcoming Obstacles
"People use drugs, legal and illegal, because their lives are intolerably painful or dull. They hate their work and find no rest in their leisure. They are estranged from their families and their neighbors. It should tell us something that in healthy societies drug use is celebrative, convivial, and occasional, whereas among us it is lonely, shameful, and addictive. We need drugs, apparently, because we have lost each other."
- Wendell Berry
Awareness
"Each time we surrender, we find once more that the desperation that drives us to our knees fuels the passion that carries us forward. When hope manifests into reality, our lives change. Our experience affirms what we believe, and belief grows into faith. When our faith grows into knowledge, the program that we once struggled to practice has become part of who we are. We find here what we were looking for all along: connection to others, connection to a Higher Power, connection to the world around us—and, most surprising of all, connection to ourselves."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Faith
"When we forget the effort and the work that it took us to get a period of freedom in our lives, a lack of gratitude sinks in, and self-destruction begins again. Unless action is taken immediately, we run the risk of a relapse that threatens our very existence. Keeping our illusion of reality, rather than using the tools of the program, will return us to isolation. Loneliness will kill us inside and the drugs that almost always come next may do the job completely. The symptoms and the feelings that we experienced at the end of our using will come back even stronger than before. This impact is sure to destroy us if we don’t surrender ourselves to the NA Program."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Perseverance
"It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure."
- Joseph Campbell
Growth
"The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty."
- Winston Churchill
Optimism
"Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing."
- August Wilson
Healing
"Courage isn’t having the strength to go on – it is going on when you don’t have strength."
- Napoléon Bonaparte
Courage
"Real hope combined with real action has always pulled me through difficult times. Real hope combined with doing nothing has never pulled me through."
- Jenni Schaefer
Hope
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will."
- Mahatma Gandhi
Strength
"There is a saying in Tibetan, ‘Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength.’ No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope, that’s our real disaster."
- Dalai Lama XIV
Strength
"Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can."
- Arthur Ashe
Motivation
"Don’t be pushed by your problems, be lead by your dreams."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Inspiration
"Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise."
- Victor Hugo
New Beginnings
"You don’t get over an addiction by stopping using. You recover by creating a new life where it’s easier to not use. If you don’t create a new life, then all the factors that brought you to your addiction will catch up with you again."
- Anonymous
Transformation
"People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Neither does bathing. That’s why we recommend it daily."
- Zig Ziglar
Motivation
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
- Robert Collier
Success
"Addiction, at its worst, is akin to having Stockholm Syndrome. You’re like a hostage who has developed an irrational affection for your captor. They can abuse you, torture you, even threaten to kill you, and you’ll remain inexplicably and disturbingly loyal."
- Anne Clendening
Awareness
"Asking for help is really the beginning of any sort of recovery process."
- Marc Maron
Empowerment
"Recovery is not simple abstinence. It’s about healing the brain, remembering how to feel, learning how to make good decisions, becoming the kind of person who can engage in healthy relationships, cultivating the willingness to accept help from others, daring to be honest, and opening up to doing."
- Debra Jay
Healing
"All the suffering, stress, and addiction comes from not realizing you already are what you are looking for."
- Jon Kabat-Zinn
Awareness
"Addiction is an adaptation. It’s not you–it’s the cage you live in."
- Johann Hari
Awareness
"I couldn’t believe that anybody could be naturally happy without being on something. So I would say to anybody, ‘It does get better.’"
- Eminem
Hope
"Somebody once asked me how I define sobriety, and my response was ‘liberation from dependence’."
- Leslie Jamison
Liberation
"When I got sober, I thought giving up was saying goodbye to all the fun and all the sparkle, and it turned out to be just the opposite. That’s when the sparkle started for me."
- Mary Karr
Optimism
"[Without sobriety] I would never be sitting here with you, no way, no chance. I never would have been able to have the relationships that I do. I never would have been able to take care of my father the way I did when he was sick. So many things."
- Bradley Cooper, actor and filmmaker
Gratitude
"First you take a drink, then the drink takes a drink, then the drink takes you."
- F. Scott Fitzgerald
Adversity
"I wanted a drink [because] I didn’t want to feel what I was feeling, and a voice within was telling me that I needed a drink, that I couldn’t bear it without it. But that voice is a liar. You can always bear the pain. It’ll hurt, it’ll burn like acid in an open wound, but you can stand it. And, as long as you can make yourself go on choosing the pain over the relief, you can keep going."
- Lawrence Block
Facing Fears
"When was the last time you woke up and wished you’d had just one more drink the night before? I have never regretted not drinking. Say this to yourself, and you’ll get through anything."
- Meredith Bell
Motivation
"At first, addiction is maintained by pleasure, but the intensity of the pleasure gradually diminishes and addiction is then maintained by the avoidance of pain."
- Frank Tallis
Awareness
"Most addicts I have talked to report a similar experience. They did not start using drugs for any reason they can remember. They just drifted along until they got hooked. If you have never been addicted, you can have no clear idea what it means to need junk with the addict’s special need. You don’t decide to be an addict. One morning you wake up sick and you’re an addict."
- William S. Burroughs, writer
Awareness
"Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over again, but expecting different results."
- Rita Mae Brown
Insight
"I’ve wanted to feel pleasure to the point of insanity. They call it getting high because it's wanting to know that higher level, that godlike level. You want to touch the heavens, you want to feel glory and euphoria, but the trick is it takes work. You can't buy it, you can't get it on a street corner, you can't steal it or inject it or shove it up your ass, you have to earn it."
- Anthony Kiedis
Determination
"People always want to ask me about my drug problem—I never had a drug problem; I had a self-esteem problem!"
- Gloria Gaynor
Self-esteem
"One of the hardest things was learning that I was worth recovery."
- Demi Lovato
Self-esteem
"I have come to believe that caring for myself is not self-indulgent. Caring for myself is an act of survival."
- Audre Lorde
Self-care
"The real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself."
- Maya Angelou
Self-awareness
"Love is the great miracle cure. Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives."
- Louise Hay
Love
"It took many years of vomiting up all the filth I'd been taught about myself, and half-believed, before I was able to walk on this earth as though I had a right to be here."
- James Baldwin
Self-esteem
"Forgiving yourself, believing in yourself, and choosing to love yourself are the best gifts one could receive."
- Brittany Burgunder
Self-improvement
"Self-care is never a selfish act—it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer to others."
- Parker Palmer
Self-care
"When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it."
- Henry Ford
Courage
"Sometimes when in a dark place you think you’ve been buried, when actually you’ve been planted."
- Christine Caine
Hope
"Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars."
- Kahlil Gibran
Resilience
"When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure."
- Peter Marshall
Courage
"We don’t even know how strong we are until we are forced to bring that hidden strength forward."
- Isabel Allende
Resilience
"The human capacity for burden is like bamboo—far more flexible than you’d ever believe at first glance."
- Jodi Picoult
Resilience
"I’ve been the lead in movies, on television shows and nominated for Emmy. But the best thing I can say about me is that people who can't stop drinking come up to me and say, 'Can you help me? ' And I can say, 'Yes. '"
- Matthew Perry
Service
"What was so painful about Amy [Winehouse]’s death is that I know that there is something I could have done. I could have passed on to her the solution that was freely given to me. Don’t pick up a drink or drug, one day at a time. It sounds so simple; it actually is simple but it isn’t easy; it requires incredible support and fastidious structuring."
- Russell Brand
Responsibility
"The healthy person finds happiness in helping others. Thus, for him, unselfishness is selfish."
- Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) saying
Service
"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others."
- Mahatma Gandhi
Compassion
"Set your heart on doing good. Do it over and over again, and you will be filled with joy."
- Buddha
Service
"If you get, give. If you learn, teach."
- Maya Angelou
Service
"If you light a lamp for somebody, it will also brighten your path."
- Gautama Buddha
Compassion
"Dare to reach out your hand into the darkness, to pull another hand into the light."
- Norman B. Rice
Courage
"An effort made for the happiness of others lifts us above ourselves."
- Lydia M. Child
Service
"In helping others, we shall help ourselves, for whatever good we give out completes the circle and comes back to us."
- Flora Edwards
Compassion
"Lighten up on yourself. No one is perfect. Gently accept your humanness."
- Deborah Day
Self-care
"In order to love who you are, you cannot hate the experiences that shaped you."
- Andrea Dykstra
Self-awareness
"I change when I’m drunk. I’m one of those people who changes…There is something in any person who drinks in a way that’s clearly not good for them, something that is attracted to that chaos."
- Daniel Radcliffe
Awareness
"The idea that the creative endeavor and mind-altering substances are entwined is one of the great pop-intellectual myths of our time… Substance abusing writers are just substance abusers —common garden variety drunks and druggies, in other words."
- Stephen King
Awareness
"Pain in this life is not avoidable, but the pain we create avoiding pain is avoidable."
- R.D. Laing
Philosophy
"I believe in recovery, and as a role model I have the responsibility to let young people know that you can make a mistake and come back from it."
- Ann Richards
Hope
"Never underestimate a recovering addict. We fight for our lives every day in ways most people will never understand."
- Anonymous
Strength
"Self-love is an ocean, and your heart is a vessel. Make it full, and any excess will spill over into the lives of the people you hold dear. But you must come first."
- Beau Taplin
Self-care
"Do we really want to be rid of our resentments, our anger, our fear? Many of us cling to our fears, doubts, self-loathing or hatred because there is a certain distorted security in familiar pain. It seems safer to embrace what we know than to let go of it for fear of the unknown."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Facing Fears
"It’s gonna get harder before it gets easier. But it will get better, you just gotta make it through the hard stuff first."
- Anonymous
Perseverance
"Recovery is something that you have to work on every single day and it’s something that doesn’t get a day off."
- Anonymous
Hard Work
"It’s not that some people have willpower and some don’t. It’s that some people are ready to change and others are not."
- Anonymous
Change
"There is no shame in beginning again, for you get a chance to build bigger and better than before."
- Anonymous
New Beginnings
"I know you’re tired, I know you feel like giving up, but you’re not going to. You know why? Because you are strong, and when you’re survived through all the shit your addiction has but you through, you can survive recovery."
- Anonymous
Strength
"Recovery is about progression not perfection."
- Anonymous
Personal Growth
"Recovery is an acceptance that your life is in shambles and you have to change."
- Jamie Lee Curtis
Change
"It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop."
- Confucius
Perseverance
"Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It’s perfect when it arrives and it puts itself in our hands. It hopes we’ve learned something from yesterday."
- John Wayne
New Beginnings
"We’re all looking at the people around us, the people who have gone before us who have succeeded in recovery and have long-term sobriety and they are an illustration for us of how good it can be."
- Scott Stevens
Inspiration
"Recovery is all about using our power to change our beliefs that are based on faulty data."
- Kevin McCormick
Personal Growth
"The way to measure your progress is backward against where you started, not against your ideal."
- Dan Sullivan
Reflection
"The search for a God of our own understanding is one of the most important efforts we will undertake in our recovery. We have complete personal choice and freedom in how we understand our Higher Power. We can each find a Higher Power that does for us what we cannot do for ourselves. Because we are powerless over our addiction, we need a Power greater than ourselves to help us."
- Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship
Faith
"It’s been said that alcoholics are egomaniacs with low self-esteem. It’s the perfect description. Being larger than life and yet your pride is crushed with self-loathing."
- Gary Oldman
Self-awareness
"Recovery isn’t for people who need it, it’s for people who want it."
- Anonymous
Motivation
"We learn that our spirit is not apart from us; it is a part of us. We gain awareness of the exact nature of what is right about us. Our fractured personalities come back together into an integrated whole. Integrity is the state of being fully integrated: Our actions, our thinking, our feelings, our ideals, and our values all match up. It takes a long time for a lot of us to get here, and longer still for us to feel like it’s real. More and more, we are able to bring our behavior into alignment with our values and beliefs rather than our feelings and reactions."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Integrity
"Sometimes we motivate ourselves by thinking of what we want to become. Sometimes we motivate ourselves by thinking about who we don’t ever want to be again."
- Shane Niemeyer
Motivation
"Our negative sense of self has been replaced by a positive concern for others. Answers are provided, and problems are solved. It is a great gift to feel human again."
- Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship
Empowerment
"Addiction is the disease that makes you too selfish to see the havoc you created or care about the people whose lives you have shattered."
- Anonymous
Awareness
"The hopeful part about that is when you do have that help, you will feel better. It still doesn’t make this easy. Nothing makes this easy, but you can make better decisions."
- David Sheff
Hope
"There is a place in this movement for everybody, whether you just want to share your story at a school, share your story with your neighbor or you want to speak to your legislator about how important supporting addiction recovery is for our communities."
- Greg Williams
Contribution
"Positive thoughts and prayer have been the best means available, since the beginning of time, to transform darkness into light."
- Kate Stevens
Faith
"Our disease involved much more than just using drugs, so our recovery must involve much more than simple abstinence."
- Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship
Awareness
"The vulnerability we experience allows us a different experience of love. It is an act of generosity to let people be close to us, and we try to understand that they, too, are going through feelings about what’s happening."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Compassion
"We learn that the program won’t work when we try to adapt it to our life. We must learn to adapt our life to the program."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Adaptation
"Pain is the touchstone of spiritual growth"
- Anonymous
Growth
"The CRAFT approach, developed by Bob Meyers at U of New Mexico, is one set of important tools that DO work, and it feels great to see families using these strategies and getting results, feeling hopeful again, feeling empowered, getting support, learning to trust themselves again, getting their lives and the lives of their children back."
- Jeff Foote, PhD
Empowerment
"It’s hard to spot a spiritual crisis: Usually it is disguised as a crisis in our relationships, finances, career, or family."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Awareness
"By keeping an open mind, sooner or later, we find the help we need."
- Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship
Hope
"Social acceptability does not equal recovery."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Awareness
"We can use this Power long before we understand it."
- Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship
Faith
"We take the time to allow ourselves the privilege of thinking."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Reflection
"Lest problems of money, property or prestige divert us from our primary purpose."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Focus
"I know, despite all my best efforts and deepest desires, that I can’t guarantee a happy, healthy, and successful path for my children; still, once in a while, I feel the tide touching my toes."
- D’Anne Burwell
Reflection
"When we are prepared, we must try out our newly found way of life."
- Narcotics Anonymous
New Beginnings
"we take the time to allow ourselves the privilege of thinking"
- Narcotics Anonymous
Self-awareness
"lest problems of money, property or prestige divert us from our primary purpose."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Focus
"us if we don’t surrender ourselves to the NA Program."
- Narcotics Anonymous
Self-improvement
"I understood myself only after I destroyed myself. And only in the process of fixing myself, did I know who I really was."
- Unknown
Self-awareness
"You were never created to live depressed, defeated, guilty, condemned, ashamed or unworthy. You were created to be victorious."
Empowerment
"Recovery didn’t open the gates of heaven and let me in. Recovery opened the gates of hell and let me out!"
- Unknown
Transformation
"I am not defined by my relapses, but by my decision to remain in recovery despite them."
Self-esteem
"The goal isn’t to be sober. The goal is to love yourself so much that you don’t need to drink."
Self-care
"I’m not telling you it is going to be easy, I’m telling you it’s going to be worth it."
Motivation
"Don’t be ashamed of your story, it will inspire others."
Inspiration
"If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop digging."
Awareness
"My recovery must come first so that everything I love in life doesn’t have to come last."
Self-care
"I can change my story."
Self-improvement
"You’re not responsible for your disease, but you are responsible for your behavior."
Responsibility
"I refuse to give up on myself."
Motivation