The more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer because smaller things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of suffering.

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"The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them."

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"Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone—we find it with another."

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"Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone — we find it with another."

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"There is only one desire: to find the promised land and the freedom of a pure love that is without concern for anything else but love."

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"Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful."

- Joshua J. Marine

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"The greater the difficulty, the more the glory in surmounting it."

- Epicurus

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"It is a rough road that leads to the heights of greatness."

- Lucius Annaeus Seneca

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"The battles that count aren’t the ones for gold medals. The struggles within yourself—the invisible, inevitable battles inside all of us—that’s where it’s at."

- Jesse Owens

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"If there is no struggle, there is no progress."

- Frederick Douglass

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