If I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive.

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"Each time you love, love as deeply as if it were forever."

- Audre Lorde

Love

"I do not wish my anger and pain and fear about cancer to fossilize into yet another silence, nor to rob me of whatever strength can lie at the core of this experience, openly acknowledged and examined...imposed silence about any area of our lives is a tool for separation and powerlessness."

- Audre Lorde

Awareness

"Life is very short and what we have to do must be done in the now."

- Audre Lorde

Awareness

"I am not free while any woman is unfree, even when her shackles are very different from my own."

- Audre Lorde

Compassion

"The love expressed between women is particular and powerful because we have had to love in order to live; love has been our survival."

- Audre Lorde

Compassion

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"Beauty is not about physical perfection, but about authenticity and confidence."

- Beauty and the Beast

Self-awareness

"Beauty is found in the unique qualities that make us who we are."

- Beauty and the Beast

Self-awareness

"I always wanted to be somebody, but now I realize I should have been more specific."

- Lily Tomlin

Self-awareness

"Make sure your worst enemy doesn’t live between your own two ears."

- Laird Hamilton

Self-awareness

"True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less."

Self-awareness