"The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself."
- Michel de Montaigne
Self-awareness
"I am stronger than depression and I am braver than loneliness and nothing will ever exhaust me."
- Elizabeth Gilbert
Strength
"Being solitary is being alone well: being alone luxuriously immersed in doings of your own choice."
- Alice Koller
Contentment
"You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with."
- Wayne Dyer
Self-esteem
"Pray that your loneliness may spur you into finding something to live for, great enough to die for."
- Dag Hammarskjold
Hope
"Still and all, why bother? Here's my answer. Many people need desperately to receive this message: I feel and think much as you do, care about many of the things you care about, although most people do not care about them. You are not alone."
- Kurt Vonnegut
Connection to Earth
"Look at the sky. We are not alone. The whole universe is friendly to us and conspires only to give the best to those who dream and work."
- A. P. J. Abdul Kalam
Optimism
"Loneliness is the poverty of self; solitude is the richness of self."
- May Sarton
Personal Growth
"If you make friends with yourself you will never be alone."
- Maxwell Maltz
Self-esteem
"What a lovely surprise to finally discover how unlonely being alone can be."
- Ellen Burstyn
Optimism
"There's a tremendous difference between alone and lonely. You could be lonely in a group of people. I like being alone. I like eating by myself. I go home at night and just watch a movie or hang out with my dog. I have to exert myself and really say, oh God, I've got to see my friends 'cause I'm too content being by myself."
- Drew Barrymore
Contentment
"In the middle of winter I at last discovered that there was in me an invincible summer."
- Albert Camus
Resilience
"There is hope, even when your brain tells you there isn’t."
- John Green
Hope
"Loneliness is the human condition. Cultivate it. The way it tunnels into you allows your soul room to grow."
- Janet Fitch
Personal Growth
"Find company within yourself and you’ll never spend a day alone. Find love within yourself and you’ll never have a lonely day."
- Connor Chalfant
Self-care
"I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person."
- Oscar Wilde
Independence
"Be alone, that is the secret of invention; Be alone—that is when ideas are born."
- Nikola Tesla
Creativity
"Music was my refuge. I could crawl into the space between the notes and curl my back to loneliness."
- Maya Angelou
Healing
"If you are never alone, you cannot know yourself."
- Paulo Coelho
Self-awareness
"We need quiet time to examine our lives openly and honestly. Spending quiet time alone gives your mind an opportunity to renew itself and create order."
- Susan L. Taylor
Reflection
"There is nothing outside of yourself. Look within. Everything you want is there. You are that."
- Rumi
Inner Peace
"What a lovely surprise to discover how un-lonely being alone can be."
- Ellen Burstyn
Optimism
"If you go deeper and deeper into your own heart, you’ll be living in a world with less fear, isolation, and loneliness."
- Sharon Salzberg
Inner Peace
"Loneliness is the poverty of self. Solitude is the richness of self."
- May Sarton
Self-awareness
"A season of loneliness and isolation is when the caterpillar gets its wings. Remember that next time you feel alone."
- Mandy Hale
Transformation
"You cannot be lonely if you like the person you are alone with."
- Wayne Dyer
Self-esteem
"It has created the word ‘loneliness’ to express the pain of being alone. And it has created the word “solitude” to express the glory of being alone."
- Paul Tillich
Awareness
"Being alone is not the same as being lonely. I like to do things that glorify being alone. I buy a candle that smells pretty, turn down the lights and make a playlist of low-key songs. If you don’t act like you’ve been hit by the plague when you’re alone on a Friday night, and just see it as a chance to have fun by yourself, it’s not a bad day."
- Taylor Swift
Self-care
"It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Independence
"I care for myself. The more solitary, the more friendless, the more unsustained I am, the more I will respect myself."
- Charlotte Brontë
Self-care
"Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape."
- Bell Hooks
Self-awareness
"Solitude is a silent storm that breaks down all our dead branches; Yet it sends our living roots deeper into the living heart of the living earth."
- Kahlil Gibran
Self-awareness
"Solitude is not the absence of Love, but its complement."
- Paulo Coelho
Love
"I’m not alone! I’m with myself. And myself is fabulous."
- Eva Longoria
Self-confidence
"Solitude is the soul’s holiday, an opportunity to stop doing for others and to surprise and delight ourselves instead."
- Katrina Kenison
Self-care
"Live alone in your mind — that is happiness. To have nobody to care for and never minding who cares for one is the way to be free."
- Swami Vivekananda
Inner Peace
"There is no support so strong as the strength that enables one to stand alone."
- Ellen Glasgow
Strength
"You need courage to see things differently, courage to go against the crowd, courage to take a different approach, courage to stand alone if you have to, courage to choose activity over inactivity."
- Jim Rohn
Courage
"I think alone time is good to know how to be alone with your own thoughts. I think it just helps you kind of be a better, more grounded person."
- Carrie Brownstein
Self-improvement
"The greatest thing in the world is for a man to know that he is his own."
- Michel de Montaigne
Independence
"Alone time is when I distance myself from the voices of the world so I can hear my own."
- Oprah Winfrey
Self-awareness
"In solitude, the mind gains strength and learns to lean upon itself."
- Laurence Sterne
Inner Peace
"You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with."
- Wayne Dyer
Self-awareness
"Do not rely on others for your happiness and self-worth. Only you can be responsible for that."
- Stacey Charter
Self-improvement
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will."
- Mahatma Gandhi
Strength
"Alone is a fact, a condition where no one else is around. Lonely is how you feel about that."
- Jeannette Winterson
Awareness
"Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much."
- Helen Keller
Teamwork
"I think it’s good for a person to spend time alone. It gives them an opportunity to discover who they are."
- Amy Sedaris
Self-awareness
"Life is full of misery, loneliness, and suffering, and it’s all over much too soon."
- Woody Allen
Adversity
"The most terrible poverty is loneliness and the feeling of being unloved."
- Mother Teresa
Adversity
"I don’t see how you can respect yourself if you must look in the hearts and minds of others for your happiness."
- Hunter S. Thompson
Self-awareness
"For fear you will be alone, you do so many things that aren’t you at all."
- Richard Brautigan
Self-awareness
"The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly."
- F. Scott Fitzgerald
Adversity
"When you’re surrounded by all these people, it can be lonelier than when you’re by yourself. You can be in a huge crowd, but if you don't feel like you can trust anyone or talk to anybody, you feel like you’re really alone."
- Fiona Apple
Adversity
"Sometimes you need to take a break from everyone and spend time alone to experience, appreciate, and love yourself."
- Robert Tew
Self-care
"Loneliness is the human condition. Cultivate it. The way it tunnels into you allows your soul room to grow. Never expect to outgrow loneliness."
- Janet Fitch
Growth
"Solitude is the place of purification."
- Martin Buber
Spirituality
"The soul that sees beauty may sometimes walk alone."
- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Independence
"Loneliness is my least favorite thing about life. That thing that I’m most worried about is just being alone without anybody to care for or someone who will care for me."
- Anne Hathaway
Adversity
"If you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it’s not because they enjoy solitude. It’s because they have tried to blend into the world before, and people continue to disappoint them."
- Jodi Picoult
Adversity
"I have to be alone very often. I’d be quite happy if I spent from Saturday night until Monday morning alone in my apartment. That’s how I refuel."
- Audrey Hepburn
Self-care
"The time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life’s cruelest irony."
- Douglas Coupland
Adversity
"Yes, there is joy, fulfillment, and companionship, but the loneliness of the soul in its appalling self-consciousness is horrible and overpowering."
- Sylvia Plath
Adversity
"Sometimes being surrounded by everyone is the loneliest, because you’ll realize you have no one to turn to."
- Soraya
Adversity
"I am no more lonely than the loon in the pond that laughs so loud, or than Walden Pond itself. What company has that lonely lake, I pray? And yet it has not the blue devils, but the blue angels in it, in the azure tint of its waters."
- Henry David Thoreau
Peace
"The secret of a good old age is simply an honorable pact with solitude."
- Gabriel García Márquez
Well-being
"Although I am a typical loner in my daily life, my awareness of belonging to the invisible community of those who strive for truth, beauty, and justice has prevented me from feelings of isolation."
- Albert Einstein
Belief
"Seek to be alone much to commune with Nature and be thus inspired by her mighty whisperings within your consciousness. Nature is a most jealous god, for she will not whisper her inspiring revelations to you unless you are absolutely alone with her."
- Walter Russell
Inspiration
"Man is, at one and the same time, a solitary being and a social being. As a solitary being, he attempts to protect his own existence and that of those who are closest to him, to satisfy his personal desires and to develop his innate abilities. As a social being, he seeks to gain the recognition and affection of his fellow human beings, to share in their pleasures, to comfort them in their sorrows and to improve their conditions of life."
- Albert Einstein
Philosophy
"The worst part of holding the memories is not the pain. It's the loneliness of it. Memories need to be shared."
- Lois Lowry
Connection to Earth
"I’m actually really interested in living more of a life of solitude. It’s really nice to just have time to be alone, and be expansive and know that you’re enough. I wish I could tell my younger self that."
- Lady Gaga
Self-esteem
"I don’t know what’s worse: to not know what you are and be happy, or to become what you’ve always wanted to be, and feel alone."
- Daniel Keyes
Self-awareness
"Loneliness adds beauty to life. It puts a special burn on sunsets and makes night air smell better."
- Henry Rollins
Awareness
"The right to be let alone is indeed the beginning of all freedom."
- William P. Douglas
Independence
"When you have nobody you can make a cup of tea for, when nobody needs you, that's when I think life is over."
- Audrey Hepburn
Adversity
"Knowing how to belong to yourself is an art in a world where everyone is finding their home in others."
- Renuka Gavrani
Self-awareness
"Closed in a room, my imagination becomes the universe, and the rest of the world is missing out."
- Criss Jami
Creativity
"All great and precious things are lonely."
- John Steinbeck
Wisdom
"There is a magic in walking alone, in thinking alone: If there is no one to contact you around, the universe starts contacting you!"
- Mehmet Murat ildan
Inspiration
"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others."
- Mahatma Gandhi
Compassion
"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone."
- Bobcat Goldthwait
Adversity
"Why does no one tell us how important it is to enjoy being single and being by yourself? That time is defining and amazing and nothing to ‘sure’. It is being alone that will actually set you up the best for being with someone else."
- Drew Barrymore
Self-awareness
"Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life’s cruelest irony."
- Douglas Coupland
Awareness
"I restore myself when I'm alone."
- Marilyn Monroe
Self-care
"If you smile when you are alone, then you really mean it."
- Andy Rooney
Happiness
"If you are lonely when you're alone, you are in bad company."
- Jean-Paul Sartre
Self-esteem
"I have a good life, I remind myself. There are plenty of people who love me. They’re just not around at the moment."
- Cynthia Hand
Gratitude
"The strongest man in the world is he who stands most alone."
- Henrik Ibsen
Strength
"We can all fight against loneliness by engaging in random acts of kindness."
- Gail Honeyman
Compassion
"I've also seen that great men are often lonely. This is understandable, because they have built such high standards for themselves that they often feel alone. But that same loneliness is part of their ability to create."
- Yousuf Karsh
Creativity
"We live in a very tense society. We are pulled apart…and we all need to learn how to pull ourselves together. I think that at least part of the answer lies in solitude."
- Helen Hayes
Balance
"I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone."
- Cyrano de Bergerac
Determination
"If isolation tempers the strong, it is the stumbling-block of the uncertain."
- Paul Cezanne
Strength
"I was never less alone than when by myself."
- Edward Gibbon
Self-awareness
"I'm very happy alone."
- Octavia E. Butler
Contentment
"Cultivate solitude and quiet and a few sincere friends, rather than mob merriment, noise, and thousands of nodding acquaintances."
- William Powell
Balance
"Alone let him constantly meditate in solitude on that which is salutary for his soul, for he who meditates in solitude attains supreme bliss."
- Guru Nanak
Spirituality
"Be able to be alone. Lose not the advantage of solitude, and the society of thyself."
- Thomas Browne
Self-awareness
"Two possibilities exist: either we are alone in the Universe or we are not. Both are equally terrifying."
- Arthur C. Clarke
Philosophy
"The eternal quest of the individual human being is to shatter his loneliness."
- Norman Cousins
Personal Growth
"Loneliness is and always has been the central and inevitable experience of every man."
- Thomas Wolfe
Adversity
"You only grow when you are alone."
- Paul Newman
Personal Growth
"From that time on, the world was hers for the reading. She would never be lonely again, never miss the lack of intimate friends. Books became her friends and there was one for every mood. There was poetry for quiet companionship. There was adventure when she tired of quiet hours. There would be love stories when she came into adolescence and when she wanted to feel a closeness to someone she could read a biography. On that day when she first knew she could read, she made a vow to read one book a day as long as she lived."
- Betty Smith
Growth
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone."
- Robin Williams
Adversity
"As I get older I'm more and more comfortable being alone."
- Sienna Miller
Self-confidence
"When everything is lonely I can be my best friend."
- Conor Oberst
Self-esteem
"Solitude is independence."
- Hermann Hesse
Independence
"Although she continued to knit, and sat upright, it was thus that she felt herself; and this self having shed its attachments was free for the strangest adventures. When life sank down for a moment, the range of experience seemed limitless."
- Virginia Woolf
Personal Growth
"A great fire burns within me, but no one stops to warm themselves at it, and passers-by only see a wisp of smoke."
- Vincent Van Gogh
Self-awareness
"Negative emotions like loneliness, envy, and guilt have an important role to play in a happy life; they’re big flashing signs that something needs to change."
- Gretchen Rubin
Awareness
"At the innermost core of loneliness is a deep and powerful yearning for union with one’s lost self."
- Brendan Behan
Self-awareness
"The time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself."
- Douglas Coupland
Self-care
"In solitude the mind gains strength and learns to lean upon itself."
- Laurence Sterne
Self-improvement
"It's an interesting combination: Having a great fear of being alone, and having a desperate need for solitude and the solitary experience. That's always been a tug of war for me."
- Jodie Foster
Adversity
"He that can live alone resembles the brute beast in nothing, the sage in much, and God in everything."
- Baltasar Gracian
Philosophy
"Well, it’s down at the end of Lonely Street at the Heartbreak Hotel."
- Elvis Presley
Adversity
"I walk a lonely road, the only one that I have ever known."
- Green Day
Independence
"Don’t wanna be all by myself anymore."
- Celine Dion
Adversity
"It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company."
- George Washington
Choice
"You’re not alone. I’m awake and I’ve been thinking of you."
- Kygo
Connection to Earth
"Lonely, I’m so lonely, I have nobody to call my own."
- Akon
Adversity
"All men's miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone."
- Blaise Pascal
Self-awareness
"I’m not the girl you’re taking home. I keep dancing on my own."
- Robyn
Independence
"Every man is born as many men and dies as a single one."
- Martin Heidegger
Philosophy
"A man is born alone and dies alone; and he experiences the good and bad consequences of his karma alone; and he goes alone to hell or the Supreme abode."
- Chanakya
Philosophy
"It is strange to be known so universally and yet to be so lonely."
- Albert Einstein
Adversity
"To go out with the setting sun on an empty beach is to truly embrace your solitude."
- Jeanne Moreau
Reflection
"To be adult is to be alone."
- Jean Rostand
Philosophy
"It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone - so far."
- Marilyn Monroe
Relationships
"All of our unhappiness comes from our inability to be alone."
- Jean de la Bruyere
Self-awareness
"By all means use some time to be alone."
- Edward Young
Self-care
"Nothing makes us so lonely as our secrets."
- Paul Tournier
Self-awareness
"The best part about being alone is that you really don't have to answer to anybody. You do what you want."
- Justin Timberlake
Independence
"Loneliness is my least favorite thing about life. The thing that I'm most worried about is just being alone without anybody to care for or someone who will care for me."
- Anne Hathaway
Adversity
"Then stirs the feeling infinite, so felt In solitude, where we are least alone."
- Lord Byron
Philosophy
"I never said, 'I want to be alone.' I only said, 'I want to be left alone.' There is all the difference."
- Greta Garbo
Choice
"Solitude vivifies; isolation kills."
- Joseph Roux
Balance
"To live alone is the fate of all great souls."
- Arthur Schopenhauer
Philosophy
"Can anybody hear me or am I talking to myself?"
- Simple Plan
Awareness
"When the people you love are gone, you're alone."
- Keanu Reeves
Adversity
"Ah, look at all the lonely people."
- The Beatles
Adversity
"You come into the world alone and you go out of the world alone yet it seems to me you are more alone while living than even going and coming."
- Emily Carr
Philosophy
"We are all sentenced to solitary confinement inside our own skins, for life."
- Tennessee Williams
Philosophy
"Remember we're all in this alone."
- Lily Tomlin
Connection to Earth
"I would rather be a beggar and single than a queen and married."
- Elizabeth I
Choice
"A human being is a single being. Unique and unrepeatable."
- Eileen Caddy
Self-awareness
"We’re happy, free, confused, and lonely at the same time."
- Taylor Swift
Balance
"There are places and moments in which one is so completely alone that one sees the world entire."
- Jules Renard
Awareness
"If I am a legend, then why am I so lonely?"
- Judy Garland
Adversity
"Let your mind alone, and see what happens."
- Virgil Thomson
Mindfulness
"A man content to go to heaven alone will never go to heaven."
- Boethius
Philosophy
"In Genesis, it says that it is not good for a man to be alone; but sometimes it is a great relief."
- John Barrymore
Philosophy
"Life could be wonderful if people would leave you alone."
- Charlie Chaplin
Peace
"Living alone makes it harder to find someone to blame."
- Mason Cooley
Reflection
"It is very easy to love alone."
- Gertrude Stein
Love
"If it's true that our species is alone in the universe, then I'd have to say the universe aimed rather low and settled for very little."
- George Carlin
Philosophy
"You can leave. I’ll remember you. I remember everyone that leaves."
- Lilo and Stitch
Relationships
"They judge me before they even know me. That’s why I’m better off alone."
- Shrek
Independence
"In the beginning, everyone is there, but then they forget."
- Grey’s Anatomy
Adversity
"People think I’m odd, so I know how it feels to be different, and I know how lonely that can be."
- Beauty and the Beast
Adversity
"There is nothing more lonely or terrifying than feeling unheard."
- House of Cards
Adversity
"Someday you’re gonna be all alone, so you need to figure out how to take care of yourself."
- The Queen’s Gambit
Self-care
"The journey’s a lonely one. So much more than we know."
- Kung Fu Panda
Resilience
"I think loneliness probably kills more people than cancer."
- A Simple Favor
Adversity
"6:30, dinner with me. I can’t cancel that again."
- How the Grinch Stole Christmas
Self-care
"Sometimes you need to be alone. Not to be lonely, but to enjoy your free time being yourself."
Self-awareness
"Sometimes you have to stand alone just to make sure you still can."
Courage