Neil Strauss

"Perhaps the biggest mistake I made in the past was that I believed love was about finding the right person. In reality, love is about becoming the right person."

- Neil Strauss

"If you ignore a deep wound, it gets infected. Same is true of psychological wounds. You have to treat a wound to heal it."

- Neil Strauss

"Without commitment, you cannot have depth in anything, whether it’s a relationship, a business or a hobby."

- Neil Strauss

"Without commitment you cannot have depth in anything."

- Neil Strauss

"Don’t look for the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, become the person you want to spend the rest of your life with."

- Neil Strauss

"Learn to accept discomfort and uncertainty. It will eliminate most of your imagined suffering."

- Neil Strauss

"At some point, you have to break from what your parents expect of you and do what’s right for you. And if you don’t, you haven’t lived your life."

- Neil Strauss